Eve Tushnet, celibate gay catholic- describes the problem

The real problem with the Church's teaching on homosexuality has nothing to do with the Church's teaching on homsexuality and everything to do with how we think we are percieved by others (funny, yes, I'm rather proud of the fact that I come FOURTH in my wife's priority list). And that's why gay marriage is NOT a solution- even for the homosexual community- and maybe it would allow us a chance to focus on the spiritual rot in the American Culture itself that affects a lot more than just gay people and destroys a lot more than just traditional families with sexual and fiscal attacks.