A way back to where I was 10 years ago.
The problem with gay marriage is not the gay, it is the marriage.
Marriage, as concieved by every civilization so far, is inherrantly discriminatory. Even in the most simple, polyamourous form, it says "I will restrict my sexuality to this one group of people and no other". Human beings seem to need this level of security.
But it is awfully bigotted of government to enforce that discrimination.
Therefore civil marriage is incompatible with the Constitution, at least as currently envisioned. CIVIL MARRIAGE DISCRIMINATES. There is no way to write a marriage law that does not discriminate, because the whole intent of marriage is to discriminate.
Just think of the money we could save on divorce courts, if there was no government recognized marriage!