“To Forgive My Father” Children of Divorce and the Parable of the Prodigal Son

“To Forgive My Father” Children of Divorce and the Parable of the Prodigal Son: "Or, better yet, perhaps we parents can work on our marriages a little harder and stop putting our kids in the role of being our emotional/spiritual caretakers."

I don't remember the conversation entirely, but I was recently challenged on this subject.  And I had to come to the conclusion that divorce ALWAYS harms the child, ALWAYS harms the abandoned spouse.

This might explain why, a bit.